A question from a reader that I thought everyone could learn from:

"Last few weeks I texted one Hungarian girl who I met in our dancing class & social dance event. She was nice, friendly & replied all my texts. I didn't text too much & replied at once at all her texts. Trying to keep it cool & casual until on the third day she asked me why did I text her and told me that she didn't welcome any approaches. Well, I said I can understand that & stop texting her afterwards. My question: as I am not going to think too much about it & move on, shall I text her maybe in future just to keep it cool among us or better not? After all I think I will see her in the dance event since she is still coming to it. I know that I just acted normal whenever I see her there. Any further suggestions though? Thanks. Appreciate your answer."

You must understand that even with the perfect lines, best approach, perfect timing, and highest confidence that the woman won't always be attracted to you. This may be for several reasons like she has a boyfriend, you're not attractive, she doesn't want a boyfriend who takes dance classes, or she just doesn't want a relationship right now.

But none of that should matter. There are many beautiful women in the world, and spending anymore time than necessary to find out whether she wants to go out with you or not, is time wasted simping.

You're "texting game" seems fine and it doesn't look like you did anything wrong. Sometimes we just have to take the L and move on. Remember, if a girl is into you at all, she wouldn't be making it hard for you. She wouldn't be difficult or waste time.

When you get rejected, accept it, don't take it personally, and move on. Do not spend anymore time on a girl who isn't interested. It will only repel her more and lower your value. The best you can hope for is to remove all contact and attention you've been throwing her way. It will either lead to her becoming interested (still VERY unlikely if she wasn't interested in the first place), or you being able to move on with dignity and find a girl who IS interested.

Furthermore, in such cases I wouldn't spend much time texting at all. Only chat to her at dance class, or before/after dance class. Any chatting in either case should be to set up a date. That is the main goal with any approach or "texting" game". Only after the first date can some text-chatting happen with her doing most of it and you setting up dates and being witty/playful.

Lessons:

Women make it easy, not hard when interested
Don't waste time on those who are not interested
Approach to set up a date, not to just get number to chat over text
Text to set up date, not to chat
When rejected, accept it and move on immediately
Retract all attention and make more space between you after rejection
Rather chat in person than over text if possible (classes, school, social groups, parties, etc)

You can try and learn all of these things on your own and not get anywhere with women, approach after approach, or you can learn how to come off as a "Chad" and have alpha-level confidence and expert texting game, and learn how to talk to 9'sand 10's HERE.

See you in the next one!

AM

p.s. Almost forgot about this. Women find men with a purpose much more attractive. they can smell it on you. It is their magical feminine intuition. This is why I suggest all men find a side-hustle to make themselves some extra $$$. Something to grind on and find purpose in. I suggest you start with the course that helped me build my empire. Get it here.

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